First of all: welcome to Entropia Universe!
I cant offer a society who meets your requirements but I do have a little advise.
Dont approach this as a regular video game. You will lose money fast and in big amounts and prolly you will be very disappointed. This is a virtual world with a real cash economy....not a video game. To save yourself some money I suggest you do some research for the moment...read forums or guides...*Alice guide to Entropia* I can recommend. Finding a decent mentor is a great way to learn. Remember..every bullet shot, every mining probe dropped or any attempt to craft an item will cost you real money..also when you have a fail. Entropia is known for its steep learning curve and skilling and knowledge comes with years...not weeks or months.
I wish you good luck with finding the society you feel comfortabe with. Im sure you will succeed. Just talk with people inworld and check the society terminals which are all over the place. Forums usually have a tab with society information where soc's recruit.