In My Humble opinion!

I have long road behind me for being member of the community, silent one, but still a member. First at the EP and nowadays here on EF and "other forums".

I'm mostly more or less intrested about the people and what kind of em are here. And thats why many who knows me know that i'm very different from normal person when talking with or maybe been one of the odd personas ingame. Been mix of the emotional person and deepthinker with short temper(in few cases). Also playing as female avatar have got many seeing me as gay. Nothing wrong there if they think like that as long as they ask about it from me.

The thing that do piss me off is the idea what they create on their mind. Without any proofs or questions they seems merely believing that picture what they get about me from the conversations and rumor talks(Which happens to be half truths in EU to most of the ppl even the most absurd ones). Or you could say thats the way how many ppl see world. Creating pictures to their heads about things and not checking whatever it is truth or not. Sure they are free of thinking whatever they want. I do that too. I mostly category these kind of people to mid and low classes who dont work in big business's or doesnt have to deal with many different kind of people from different cultures. IE they dont have experience about "different" people. And thats why they tend to not understand how to communicate with em or how to deal with em. You can see many of these here in the forums, or looking in the mirror as many of us are these kinds.

I just hope that someday people start thinking more openly and really thinking what kind of the person really is behind the post or the avatars. Thats what i try to do. Too bad many people tends to say F*ck it, I want to go and have fun not think about other people. Sometimes it is even hard to deal with different kind of people. And losing your temper is one way to see it.

Reading lots of these forums,seeing that its little shame that people who think differently and happens to be minority or are not so good at "f*ck it, i wanna just have fun, lets diss all who thinks differently" are silenced or scared away. If you dont see this kind of attitude here then you are free to go check LG threads or new VU threads. You will find atleast few people who really just trying to shut other people with force. The whole forums rep. system is one of the ways. If they disagree with you they give you neg rep(Even when you opinion is fairly explained). And spam lots of Bullsh*t in their responds and even can go to digging your private information or rumors as a tools to disgrace you and your opinion. Other thing are these kind of people who happens to think like this, "give me proofs and i change my opinion" and still dont give any proofs about their own opinions.

IMHO all these kind of people are narrowminded, and sometimes i feel that moderators should start seeing the things differently when moderating. But maybe i'm the narrowminded because i think like this?! I just want to ask the question from all who happens to read this. Do we want forum where narrowminded people spam their opinions, force other to shut up. Creating the grief and bad feelings to everyone who think differently. Or do we want forum where people are truelly free to share their opinions without fear of getting knock down by the spammers and wanna be ubertypers (my own word). IMHO every person have mostly something to contribute to any thread, it is just that some of em just dont know how to put it there well. This thing should be remembered in the mods/admins ivory tower and here on the ground.

The forums should be the place where people share their OWN OPINIONS AND THOUGHTS. whatever those are same or close to the thoughts of the majority of the users or not. Whining is here, whining was here and whining will always be here. This should not be the forum where people are classified as good writer or bad writer. There is no different between these post:

OMG MA S UCLKST LOOT SUCSozrr

and

Have anyone notice that loots are worse than before.

IMHO... just the writing style. The negative thought is still there. But still when everyone read those. They feel that the one who wrote the first line is some teen who losses his 10$ here and the other one is adult who just is worried.

Why i made this blog? Well the thing is that i have minor Dyslexia/Dysgrafia as many others here. And there is many different types of Dyslexia, Dysgrafia and people. And i hope that the way someone is writing or his opinions should not ever been considered reason to knock him down or diss him. Just because he is one way or other way different for the reason which he cannot change.

Before threating people badly get to know him better and check your info. Dont go and listen the rumorers who cannot give you any proofs.

Like i like to say: "people are what their experiences have shape em. Dont diss people for having certain experience in pass and which they cannot change. Adapt and try to understand." and sometimes there is a line after that which goes "or f*ck off"